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Jonathan Sudano posted a condolence
Friday, May 12, 2023
Hey dad.
I know it's been a while, and I think about you pretty much daily, and I know you're up there with mom now. I just want to let you know that I'll take things from here. I know it probably wasn't easy raising a son with the anxiety about the man he'll become one day. As much as I wanted to make you proud, I think the best thing a man can do with the life he's given is to live it how he wants. I took care of mom the best I could. She died with my hand in hers without pain or suffering. And I know the first thing she wanted to do was reunite with you the moment she entered God's kingdom. Please look after her. Please watch us and continue to give us signs. Please don't worry about me or my brother or his children. Life is precious and I don't plan on wasting it. I hope I make you proud every moment I'm alive. I'll see you again someday. But not yet.
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Cindy Sudano posted a condolence
Monday, November 16, 2015
My Dear Husband...you are with me always! I know this for sure. But I miss you more and more every day. For the past 12 years you've been in my heart and my mind every single day. I am a different person without you. The grief never goes away...I've just learned to cope a little better and I still have my bad days though. Life has somehow continued and there ARE wonderful things that have happened--as I know you can see! The birth of our beautiful grandson...I see you in his eyes every time he looks at me! I make sure he knows about his PopPop in Heaven. He talks to your picture! When I hold him I know your arms are wrapped around us both, hugging us as well. As I know you kept him safe until he arrived to us, please keep his tiny brother safe as well...until he comes to us! Words can't express how much I love and miss you...I can't wait to see you again!!
Your loving wife, Cindy ~ 317
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Frank Turco posted a condolence
Monday, November 17, 2003
Distance have kept us apart during the last few years, but I will always remember Benny during my summers growing up in Collings Lake playing baseball, tennis, swimming, getting lost in the woods, fishing and doing what kids normally do. One memory that I have is when I was in 6th grade and Benny was in the 8th grade and he was trying to teach me how to play pool at a local Collings Lake arcade. During that time, an Elton John song came on titled "Bennie and the Jets" and we both played pool and sang to the song. We both enjoyed that day and the other days during those summers. Everytime that I hear the song Bennie and the Jets I will think of my cousin and the good times that we had growing up. I will miss him very much.
My sympathy goes out to Cyndi, Ben Jr, Jonathon, Josie and Frank and to anyone that was touched by Bennie because our lives were so much better for it. My God Bless you.
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Richard Pacitti posted a condolence
Friday, November 14, 2003
Ben was a dear friend for a very long time. Through the years Ben provided a sense of humor to events that was certainly unique. This outlook on life was maintained as we moved from our childhood to becoming adults. Ben you will be sorely missed.
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Francesca Verno posted a condolence
Thursday, November 13, 2003
Dear Cindy,Benny and Jonathan, our deepest sympathies go out to you and the boys. Benny will be missed by all. May "GOD" bless and guide you in your time of need.
Love, Aunt Gina and Anthony
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Virginia M. Hollloway posted a condolence
Thursday, November 13, 2003
To the family my heart and prayers are with you Love Ginny Holloway
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Mark Tortu posted a condolence
Thursday, November 13, 2003
My condolences to Ben's family.
I will remember Ben as not only a supervisor.....but a friend.
I will miss my friend.
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George Jackson posted a condolence
Thursday, November 13, 2003
My prayers go out for you and yours.
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Anna Maria Vona posted a condolence
Thursday, November 13, 2003
Benny was my husband Carmen's best friend, from first grade to eighth grade. They then parted close company because they went to different high schools, but they remained friends to this day.
I loved Benny from the day I first met him. He was always so jolly and full of jokes and little-boy mischief. When I first met Benny, he and Cindy had already been dating, so when Carmen and I began dating, we all became very good and very close friends. I remember fondly all our good times and all the double-dates we had together.
Carmen and I were in Ben and Cindy's wedding and they were in our wedding. Benny was Carmen's best man and Cindy was my matron of honor. Ben and Cindy also had the "pleasure" of baby-sitting our crazy black poodle Combo while we were on our honeymoon. Cindy and Ben doubled over laughing while they relayed all the crazy things Combo did while we were gone.
Over the years, baby-sitting replaced dog-sitting as we both had children. Ben and Cindy had two sweet boys and we had two sweet daughters. It has been a wonderful experience to keep our friendship to the point to where our children are friends with each other. We have fond memories of our seafood barbecues at John's, our Christmas visits and all the important festivities like christenings and birthdays. We shared with each other all the high and low points of our lives and we have a special bond that will never be broken.
Benny was a considerate, compassionate young man and never failed to make you laugh. He was also a wonderful listener. I never heard him utter a negative statement about anyone.
On that fateful Sunday, I was at the Deptford Mall with my daughters and thought about Ben and Cindy so strongly that day. I wanted to stop in and say hello, but because it was getting late, I decided against it. As soon as I returned home, the phone rang with news that Ben had died; I still had my jacket on when I received the call.
So much had changed in a just a few short hours... and yet so much will stay the same. Ben has left the legacy of his sweet nature to his children. Cindy is so much like Ben, full of laughter and playfulness, that sometimes it was like they were almost brother and sister rather than husband and wife. Ben was always teasing Cindy and playing little jokes on her and my husband is the same way with me, no doubt having honed his skills after years with Benny!
Benny, I will miss your laughter and your pranks, but I have my memories from teenage dating, to meeting up with you in college at Temple, to weddings and babies. The life cycle is now complete. We will meet up again one day.
May my dear friend Cindy sustain the future for herself and her children with the wonderful memories from the tapestry of her life with Ben. I feel honored to have been part of that tapestry, and yet it still continues with our children. My deepest sympathy to my dear friend Cindy, Ben, Jr. and Jonathan. We will always be here for you, and will create new memories together in Ben's legacy.
Love, Anna Maria
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Melissa Lerro-Bingnear posted a condolence
Thursday, November 13, 2003
I had the privledge of knowing Ben and his family many years ago,when I used to babysit for him and Cindy. He was always a sweet man to me. I wish all the prayers in the world to Cindy and his lovely boys.
God Bless
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Cheryl Boyle posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 12, 2003
I only had the pleasure, of knowing Ben a little over a year, when he came to work at Kellogg's. But in that short time, I saw a man of fun and laughter. Also i never once heard Ben have a mean word to say about anyone. Ben, I will miss seeing your smile in the morning when i come in and again when i leave at night.
And to Cindy and the boys. Ben always talked of all the fun times and things you did together, he was a great family man. My prayers are with you.
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Ken Burton posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 12, 2003
For thirty years Benny kept me smiling. I thank God for knowing him. I thank God for having been fortunate enough to spend a day with him not long ago. He was a very special person, anyone reading this already knows that. Our prayers and love go to Cindy and the boys.
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Trish and Steve Vergilio posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 12, 2003
Steve and I had the priviledge of becoming friends with Ben and Cindy about 3 years ago. In the years to come, we'll always remember the laughter that surrounded Ben no matter where we were. We are both honored to have been a small part of his life.
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Sheilah F. Green posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 12, 2003
Please know that my prayers are with you and your family at this terribly sad time. God bless you and your family.
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matt desimone posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 11, 2003
Ben was amazing person.One of the best i ever met. A sense of humor that could put a smile on anyones face. He was basically family to me and i loved him. Heaven is much better place now that he is there.
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John J. Del Casale posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 11, 2003
The greatest legacy one can leave is that they made every event with which they were involved that much more fun than if they were not there. Whether it be the night before Thanksgiving, Christmas shopping, the seafood barbecue, crabbing or just dinner and arcade nonsense, Ben always added to the number of smiles we each would leave with at the end of the day. We will all move forward with our lives....it just will be with less smiles. Sweet dreams my friend; I look forward to the day when we will again meet for all eternity.
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