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julia posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 11, 2003
big brother, I will always think ofyour smile, and the sparkle,in your eyes. I will forever charish the memories. I love you..your baby sister....julia
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DEBBIE GAUTHREAUX posted a condolence
Monday, June 9, 2003
BILL,
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
ALL OUR LOVE,
SAM & DEBBIE GAUTHREAUX
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Danielle Stevens posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2003
I will always remember uncle Harry as a truly loving and giving individual. He came into my life when he came into my aunt Patti's. I definately commend him for jumping into a family like ours. He had such a great big heart that he gave his love and friendship and help to anyone he knew or anyone that needed it. He was such a happy man, always had a smile on his face and could always make you laugh. He genuinly just made you feel good.
He loved & cherished my aunt Patti and David and Juliann more than anything else. The time I got to spend with him as well as his family was definately just much too short.
I was so lucky to have been a part of his life as well as him in mine. I will always keep those fun times and memories close to my heart. I will miss him. I love him. I was so very lucky and proud to have known him. My whole family was so lucky to have had him a part of it. A man like uncle Harry doesn't happen many times, I'm just glad it was during my time as well as my whole family's.
God Bless you.
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jody pope posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2003
HERE IS A POEM FOR YOU PATTY AND THE KIDS TO REMEMBER.YOURE GONE AWAY BUT WE THINK OF YOU,
THINKING OF THE TIMES WE SPENT AND THE THINGS WE USED TO DO!
when you left our eyes were swollen from all the crying we have done.
i remember when we met you and i knewyou were the one to care for.
at night we think of you and wish that you were here.
and we cant stop ourselves from crying just one more tear.
we wish your arms were around us and telling us that you love us so,
and theres something we should tell you ,
something you should know.even though youre gone,your presence is so near.
just remember one thing:we love you :and we will be waiting here.i hope you like this .......
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jody pope posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2003
HERE IS A POEM FOR YOU PATTY AND THE KIDS TO REMEMBER.YOURE GONE AWAY BUT WE THINK OF YOU,
THINKING OF THE TIMES WE SPENT AND THE THINGS WE USED TO DO!
when you left our eyes were awollen from all the crying we have done.
i remember when we met you and i knewyou were the one to care for.
at night we think of you and wish that you were here.
and we cant stop ourselves from crying just one more tear.
we wish your arms were around us and telling us that you love us so,
and theres something we should tell you ,
something you should know.even though youre gone,your presence is so near.
just remember one thing:we love you :and we will be waiting here.i hope you like this .......
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Alex & Joe Kelley posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2003
It's taken a few days for this to sink in. I haven't seen Harry very much lately, geography being what it is. But the thing about Harry, it didn't matter whether it had been yesterday, or last year. By the time he was done shaking your hand, you were best of friends again, and he was offering to help you with whatever you were working on at the time. His decency, and his character will be missed in a world where those things are often in very short supply. Patty, your family is in our prayers. Believe in Peace.
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Wes Howell posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2003
So sorry, my heart and prayers are with you. Harry was a great guy, I am happy to have known him.
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Steve Hamm posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2003
Although I haven?t seen or talked to Harry in a few years I will still miss him and feel a great loss in his passing. Harry actually made being at work at Lockheed Martin a lot easier with his sense of humor and his ability to just make you feel good. I wish I had made the call to him that I would always tell my wife I was going to make, but always ended up forgetting for one reason or another. Patti my prayers are with you and your family in this time of great loss.
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Dora Hucks posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2003
Patty and family we are so deeply sorry and send our sincerest sympathy. We will keep you in our prayers. Love Don, Dora
and David Hucks
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Connie J. Rivers posted a condolence
Sunday, June 8, 2003
Patti my prayers are with you and your family in this time of great loss. It?s hard to understand why God takes the ones he does and when, except I believe that Harold?s work on this earth was done. The things he was sent to do are done and God took him home. Let your grief be short. If you can move through your grief journey singing and dancing, even for a few moments at a time, you may find that the end result for you is a little better for your body, mind and spirit. This in no way means that you are being disrespectful to Harold. In fact, you are doing exactly what he would want you to do. Using a tool to work through the grief can help. Besides, I believe it is said that there is music and singing in Heaven.
Having faith means that Harold?s soul will always be alive. And if I know him, I know that he's watching over you and his children at this terrible and shocking time of loss for all of us. I know how much he loved you. And how much his mother and family meant to him. He was so proud of all of you and always showed his pictures of his family. I remember one time at the Lyndonville diner, we, his Aunt Sue and his Mom, Christine were there having breakfast with him. So I took out pictures of my kids to show everyone, and like a shot, Harold pulled out his wallet. He was the first man I?d ever seen with just as many pictures in his wallet of his kids as I had! He was so proud of all of you. I know he loved you all very much.
His passing over was so sudden it was hard for his family up in the Northeast Kingdom of Vermont. We all love and have loved him all of his physical life. Thinking that we?d see him this summer. He was a very special person. Come to think of it he was always special some how. I will always remember Harry as a truly loving, thoughtful and generous person. I have so many memories of him growing up and I will always hold them near to my heart. I will miss him very much but I also believe that his soul is just beginning to live. I know my life is richer for having a chance to be his cousin. A special and caring person like Harry comes along in life very seldom. And I know I?m better for knowing and loving him.
He was always such a special kid too.That kindness and toughtfulness of others he had inherently. His families of cousins up here also know and believe that if he could be near you in any way possible that he is and will be. Psalm 91:11-12 "For He will give His angels charge of you, to guard you in all your ways. On their hands they will bear you up, lest you dash your foot against a stone." Knowing Harold, he?s probably an angel now!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I can?t help but think that now he?s reunited with his grandparents who he loved so very much. The Harry I knew was full of humor, always generous and kind. He was such a giving and caring man and we will always love him and miss him, until we meet again?in a better place.
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roberta gauthreaux posted a condolence
Saturday, June 7, 2003
So sorry our hearts and prayers are with you.
aunt burt & uncle phil & family
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Denise Cogill posted a condolence
Saturday, June 7, 2003
I will always remember Harry as a truly loving and giving man. He came into my life when he came into Patti's. She was my neighbor and friend when she lived in Pennsauken.
He had a heart so big that he gave his love and friendship to all who knew him. He always had a smile on his face those dimples! and could always make you laugh.
He loved & cherished his family more than anyone could ever realize. His untimely passing makes me profoundly sad because he was going to take care of Patti for the rest of their lives and the time they shared together was much too short.
He loved his children. The last time I saw Harry-the first thing he did was open his wallet and show me the most recent pictures of David & Julianne of whom he was so genuinely proud. He beamed when he gave me the latest news of what they were doing in their lives.
I was so lucky to have spent that day with him and to have sat next to him while we shared our meal. We laughed so much that day-it was at the wedding of our mutual friends-Maryellen & Randey. I teased him about his tie and asked him if he dressed himself that day. Patti thought that was really funny. Anyone that knew Harry knew he was much more comfortable in jeans than a suit and tie!
I remember when he lived in Pennsauken and I got to see a lot more of him and spent a lot more time with him. We would hop in his truck at the last minute looking for more fireworks on Fourth of July weekend because one fireworks show during the holiday wasn't enough. He wanted to take the kids out for a good time any time he got the chance.
I will always keep those fun times and memories close to my heart. I will miss him. I loved him. I was so very lucky and proud to have known him. And everyone who knew him-our lives are richer for having that chance. A man like Harry only comes along once in a lifetime-I'm just glad it was during my lifetime.
I wish we stayed closer when he and his family moved to Mullica Hill. I wish we had made a definite date to get together after our friends wedding instead of just talking about it that day.
Harry...you don't have to wear a tie where you are-jeans are just fine.
God Bless you. And God Bless Patti, David and Julianne.
Love always, Denise Cogill and family
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Michael DiSanto posted a condolence
Saturday, June 7, 2003
Harry was a great guy. He did so much for me and my friends that I will never get to truely thank him for. Just as he would do anything for me, I just want to let the Cole family know that I am willing to do anything I can for them. Take care.
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jody pope posted a condolence
Saturday, June 7, 2003
I WOULD LIKE TO SAY IM VERY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT HAROLD AND WHEN I FIRST MET HIM AT HIS DADS HE IS A VERY NICE AND CARING PERSON AND LOVES HIS FAMILY VERY MUCH.IF ANYTHING YOU ALL NEED PLEASE LET ME KNOW.I WAS SEEING HIS DAD AT THE TIME...
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Jacqueline E. Gould posted a condolence
Saturday, June 7, 2003
Dear David and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. I lost my father when I was a freshman in college. I know how devasting this event is, but you will pull through. It takes lots of time to heal and all of us grieve in a different way. Don't be afraid to cry. It's a great way to release built up anger, frustration and everything else you are feeling. Honestly, I think crying shows that you are a gentle man and that speaks volumes.
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I have placed your family on the prayer list at my church. The Lord selects
only the sweetest flowers for His garden.
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Jeanne HolmesLetourneau posted a condolence
Saturday, June 7, 2003
The memories that I have with Harold and his mother are happy ones. Harold, you will be loved and missed.
Jeanne, David and Corey Holmes
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JOANNE LANG-SZYMANSKI posted a condolence
Saturday, June 7, 2003
HARRY WAS A VERY TALENTED GUY. HE WORKED ON MY SON BILL'S FRONT PORCH AND REMODELED MY EX-HUSBAND'S BATHROOMS, WITH THE HELP OF MY BROTHER,JERRY. I APOLOGIZE THAT MY DAUGHTER IN LAW WOULD NOT ALLOW THEM TO "DEPOSIT" IN HER BATHROOM, SO THEY HAD TO USE THE BACKYARD.
HARRY, I KNOW THAT GOD MUST HAVE BETTER PLANS FOR YOU AND WHO KNOWS WHICH ONE OF US GOD WILL CHOOSE TO TAKE HOME WITH HIM, BUT WE WILL SURELY MISS YOU DOWN HERE. I PRAY THAT GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR WIFE AND CHILDREN AND PROTECT THEM.
LOVE, AUNT JOANNE
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Joan Kelley posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
Dear Patti and children. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Harry was a fantastic person and greatly enriched us all. He was such a giving, caring man and we will miss him. Aunt Joan and Uncle Joe
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Joe Nelson posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
I was Harry?s first customer when he started his own business after leaving Garlock Bearings. Him and I were working in my kitchen tearing down a plaster wall when Harry cut his finger. It was a bad cut and Harry started to swoon from the sight of the blood. Remember this is his first day on the job with his new business. I load him up in his truck and drive him to the emergency room for stitches. Two hours later we walk out of the emergency room and he has me drive him to Home Depot, he needs supplies and a new tool. That was Harry. He will be missed.
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Judy & Jerry Mangino posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
We are not sure this awful news has or will ever really sink into our heads or hearts. When we think of the past 15 years our family has known and loved Harry many memorable moments come to mind
· the newly introduced young man sleeping on our living room floor - all tangled up in our Christmas tree trimmings ? waking up grinning with that cute ?down home? smile in his eyes and asking ?how?d that happen???
· the caregiver sleeping on the floor along side our daughter?s bed for the better part of 42 days in the Bone Marrow Transplant Unit at Hahnemann Hospital?..
· Jerry and I still talk about the day Harry called to discuss putting in a skylight in the bedroom and Jerry saying ?but not today Har, we?re in for some really bad thunderstorms??.only to drive to the house minutes later and see his proud head poking through a very large cutout of the roof . I guess we all know, Harry could not sit still.
We see him as a devoted husband and father. Proud of his kid?s accomplishments?computers, music, soccer, academics?.a very proud Dad. A very loving husband.
We see his smile, the openness of heart and ?mouth??..there were no secrets with Harry. What you saw is what you got---an open, loving, respectful, giving individual who tried to do right by everyone and everything. Harry will live on in our hearts forever. Love, Jerry and Judy Mangino aka Nana and Pappy
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Brian and Jan Dillmore posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
Harry was working on my deck just after the attacks on the World Trade Center. One evening we spent a great deal of time talking about life, family, and all the things that were truly important to each of us. It was obvious how much his family mattered to him, and that his priorities were in the right order.
When he did a job for you, he did it as if he were building it for his own family. He never cut corners or was satisfied with 'okay', it had to be perfect. He was a true craftsman, and a gentleman in every sense of the word. He will be missed.
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Lorrie Webber posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
Our thoughts are with you.
Dwight & Lorrie Webber
East Haven, VT.
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Bonnie Gates posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
Harry will be missed by all his friends at Garlock Bearings. His smiling face will be embedded in my heart forever. My prayers are with his family.
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Virginia Neilio posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
So sorry for your loss. I worked with Harry and he was one of the nicest people I ever met. May God be with you and comfort you in this time of darkness.
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Marvin Schultz posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
Dave and family please call when you want 223-0735.
God bless you all.
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Gloria Bryant posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
I only knew Harry for a little while but he touch the lives of many here at Temple University. I will personally miss teasing him about his lunch of Slim-Fast/ salad, and his plesant smile.
Sorrowfully missed,
Gloria J. Bryant,
Temple University
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Christine Harvey posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
My thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Harry was a wonderful man. Love Laura Mangino's cousin
Christine Mull-Harvey
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Tami Sykes posted a condolence
Friday, June 6, 2003
A greater cousin, "big brother", and friend could never be. Harold always meant so much to me. We spent many hours hanging out together as kids and doing things we shouldn't have as teenagers but it was a fun, memorable time. I will never forget the dimples and the smirk that was always the first sign that Harold was about to "get" you. He had a great zest for life and truly lived every moment to the fullest. As the oldest cousin in our family he was looked up to and admired by all of us, truly an amazing person. Our lives are truly blessed that we got to have him for the time that we did. We will meet again Harold, I can't wait to see those beautiful dimples and those twinkling eyes. Love doesn't even begin to describe what I feel for you, you will always be the cousin, "big brother" and friend that you have been all my life. Thank you for all the times you saved me, made me smile or just hung out with me. You will live in my heart forever. Till we meet again, Love Tami
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Maria Leotti posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
Patti and Family,
I am deeply saddened at the loss of Harry. Harry had, and always will have, a special place in my heart. He was always kind to me and he talked to me like I was someone special. But you see, that was what was so great about Harry is the fact that he could do that. I will miss talking with him and I will miss his endearing accent which he insisted he didn't have. I have many fond memories from the little house in Secane and it's hard to believe that I have know Harry for that long. I feel blessed to have had Harry as a friend and neighbor and I will always love and miss him.
You are all in my thoughts and I hope you find comfort in your family and friends.
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Joe Leotti posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
Harry was one of a few really good people I've known in my life. He was the type that would even compliment you on your mistakes, damn he sure complimented me a lot. I will truly miss him.
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Janet Feliciano posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
Thank You for your kindness and love you shared with my cousin Laura and her family and Patti and her family. You were a good husband, and a great father. Harry was truly the best of the best.
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Ed and Suzanne Veres posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
Will Keep Harry and his family in our prayers.
Ed Veres, Brother knight
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Miichael Hunter Holderman MD posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
A wonderful, loving man by deed. My deepest sympathies to you all on this great loss.
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Paul Smiley posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
The sadness and sorrow for Harry, Patti and family weighs heavy in my heart these past few days. Harry was one of the few people we meet in this world today who routinely put the needs and wishes of others in front of his own. He was an example for me of how to be a good friend, husband, father and man. His generous spirit, kind heart and welcoming demeanor leaves me feeling lonely and sorrowful for not making it a point to get together more often with Patti and he. I remember working on our cars together, schmoozing him into helping me with home projects in South Philly and assembling a pool in his home in Secane. Funny how I never remember Harry complaining to me much about anything or anyone. Why are the truly good and decent people taken from us so young? If any of my three young sons grow up to be like Harry, I will count myself blessed beyond my greatest expectations. Rest well Harry, thanks for your friendship and the times we shared together. Love Always, Paul and Beth Smiley
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Colleen Nachurski posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
We send our deepest sympathy to Harry's family. He was a special gift to all of us, a great guy and a truly giving man who would do anything for anyone. I am so glad that he was part of our family. We will miss him very much.
love
Colleen
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Terrie and Anthony Olivo posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
Harry was a very sweet and gentle man. Nothing was too much trouble for him when it came to lending a helping hand. He was an all around handyman. The first time I met him and he asked about me being a widow, he said to me as he held his wife Patti's hand,"you can love again and it can be great!" I thought that was such a lovely thing to say and how lucky I thought Patti was to have found such a loving man. He will be missed so greatly by so many people whose lives he touched through his kindness. May we all learn by his example and may he be at total peace with God. Love, The Olivos
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Dave & Debbie Vinti posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
Patti & Children: We want to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We were truly saddened by the news of Harry's passing. We will always remember Harry's smile and laughter in the neighborhood. He would always give a hand to whoever needed it. Now that we've moved from NJ we will never forget him and he will always be in our heart. May you find strength through God's unabiding love.
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Pam Simmerman posted a condolence
Thursday, June 5, 2003
Harry will be missed dearly. He was such a happy guy who enjoyed life. He would do anything for anyone and was such a giving soul.
Harry has been my neighbor for 8 years and I have many memories to draw back on and I have reflected on so many in the past few days.
Harry was very good at carpentry which led us to ask him to do many projects in our home. We look upon that work with pride and it shows how precise and detail oriented Harry was.
He always spoke in high regard of his wife and two children. Family life was important to Harry and he cherished it. He was a very private person but befriended many and will sadly missed by all.
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